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I currently work for Nemours Children's Clinic and I work part time for Baptist Medical Center. I have an amazing boyfriend, we have been together for about a year and a half and have a nice place together. I love animals. I am majoring in psychology and love giving advice to people!
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Age: 23
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my boyfriend is in basic training for the army and i wont get to see him for a few months. i am dieing. i miss him so much. i try to fill my time with my friends. But it still doesnt work. i cry everynight. how do i make this feeling go away. (link)
I'm sorry that he's going to be gone, and I'm sorry to say it, but you can't make the feeling go away because you miss him. I've been through something similar before and it hurts so bad, but there's nothing you can do except spend time with your friends and write him letters. Make sure you let him know how you feel and hopefully he'll be able to write you back (I don't know if they can have letters in basic training). Try occupying your time with a hobby or with work/school (I'm not sure how old you are or if you're in school etc.). And be faithful to him if you really want to be with him. That's very important. My boyfriend was away for 6 months and we made it through it. We've been together for over two years and we live together now, so it can be done. Just don't lose hope and remember that one day it will be better. If you want to talk or have anymore questions just message me. Good luck!


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