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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)

advice

About 8 or 9 months ago, I revealed to a boy that I really like him...he said he didn't want to do anything to put our friendship at risk, so we didn't start a relationship...however, we eventually became intimate with eachother from time to time, (not the kind where I would lose my virginity, but still pretty intimate) so it's sort of evolved into a "friendship with bennefits" thing...I am still very much in love with this boy, and the more time I spend with him (intimate or not) I grow to love him even more. I'm not sure exactly how he feels about me, but I desperately want to move forward with him. I'm not sure what to do...

maybe try asking him if he wants to start having a more personal-ish relationship than friendship. i mean, there's nothing wrong with friendship, but if he feels the same way about yu, then yu can work a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship no matter what consequences.

feel free to talk ask me whatever yu want.
good luck!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you very, very much! I agree with your advice, and it will definately help!! Thank you once again!
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