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say you like this boy and you tell all your best friends and then your friend tells you she likes the boys cousin and she wants to go out with him.the boy your friend likes gets a girlfriend(its not your friend) so she gets mad and says i dont like him anymore. then on the phone your friend says she likes the boy you like and he likes her(even thou she told you she would never go with him he is like a brother 2 her months before that)wouldnt you be mad?? i am. what would you do?

i think i would be more hurt then mad. even though i would be mad. i would talk to her. calmly not accusingly. say things like "i'm kind of hurt that you like the same guy i do after you said that hes like brother to you and you said that you wouldnt ever go out with him" dont say anything like, "you said you wouldnt go out with him!! you cant do this to me i thought we were friends" or else she'll never understand what you are trying say. she might not even understand at all even if you are being reasonable. also say stuff like "I feel..." that way its also less accusing. but i guess she cant help it of she likes him. at least they arent going out.

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