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my brother died about four years ago on a motorcycle accident
i still get sad over it and i dont like it i dont feel like being sad all the time i know it happened a long time ago but sometimes like at night i start to think abbout things that we used to do and he used to do and i just start crying
at times ive been up crying up till 5in the morning on school nights
im sick of crying myself to sleep every night
plz help or just say something !!!
anything !!!
keep it zen !!!
thanx !!!

wow i kind of know how you feel. thought nobady can fully understand. my brother died 3 years ago in a car accident and it still hurts. I miss him so much. we were so close. im better now but i still miss im like crazy. i learned that things happen. life isnt always fair and you dont always get what you deserve. i was a wreck, but what helped me was talking to friends an family. i also went to counseling. i know it sounds weird. you might not want to go but trust me if you talk to somebody you can learn ways of dealing with greif and living more normally again. cause i know nothing can be the same. i also started going to church and got a lot closer to God. i had a lot of questions and got answers. i know it may not look like it now, but this happening could bring some good things too, like appreciateing life and getting to know God and living to the fullest. im not saying that this is a good thing, cause no doubt would i give up anything to get my brother back again. im so sorry this happened.
i hope i helped a little =/

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(Rating: 5) yeah i went to counceling for like a month right after the accident but i was young and i didnt feel like putting up with the quesstions
now that im like older im more open about it
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