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What should I do?
by Minuk Choi

For you,
I would gladly walk a mile,
if that would give me a chance
to see you smile.

I'd call you my friend,
but that's a lie.
You mean more to me,
but I can't explain why.

For you are more precious to me
than all of the world's gold,
but I can't tell you that,
how can I be that bold?

If I spoke what's on my mind,
would you accept me?
Because without you,
I don't know where I'd be.

You seem to be calm,
while I feel absolutely lost.
I would like to be so bold,
but what would its failure cost?

Am I the only one faced with this choice?
Be daring and risk losing you as a friend too?
I can't risk that; I'd rather have that then lose everything.
What should I do?

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o.k so here's the deal my dream is to be and advice columnist for a newspaper or magazine i'm really good at giving people advice.. but i never take my own.. i need... help i have a great boyfriend... he's nice, funny and he makes me feel good he once just came over my house just to give me flowers......but he has one flaw... HE SMOKES WEED! and weve been dating for about 3 months now and he says he's gonna stop but he doesn't... please i need help should i break up with him or give him another chance... please tell me what you think

Okay I am going to tell you this striaght up. He most likely will not stop, not anytime soon anyways. Most people who smoke weed will always want it to some extent, it takes a very strong person to stop smoking and make it a once in awhile thing (couple times a year) and to stop all together is even harder especially when the only reason for them to stop is someone else wanting them to do it. They see nothing wrong with it and therefore don't see why people keep telling them to stop. Then the more you tell him to quit the more likly he is to just resent you for trying to control what he does. So here's the deal you have already asked him to stop and he agrees and then just goes and smokes again. He is lying to you about stopping maybe not on purpose because he may actually try to stop but like I said that won't work, he will always go back to it because he didn't want to stop in the first place he was only doing it for you, so there was not a stong enough motivation to stop. So if this is something that is going to be a problem for you then I would leave him, trust me I had a relationship for 7 years and he constantly promised me things and never came through, they honestly mean to but they just can't so the best thing to do for yourself is to leave unless it is something you think you can live with. Talk about it with him once more and really tell him how important he is to you and how you hate seeing him doing that to himself. Plead your case once more and see how it goes. This may not be happy advice but its honest and real and I really hope it helps you out good luck!

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