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I recently had sex for the first time. We had penetrative sex but he did not cum inside me as he was not wearing a condom. Is is still possible to get pregnant. Also, when does someone officially lose their virginity? I was expecting bleeding but there wasn't any. There was however, a little pain and discomfort and I also often felt tense as every 5 mins I felt like I needed to pee. Is this normal? Many thanks for your help!

You can get pregnant anytime you have sex - no matter what if he cums or not. Obviously if you aren't wearing protection, your chances are much higher. Losing your virginity involves any penetration with a penis & vagina. Some girls will bleed because their hymen isn't broken. & if not, it's possible you already broke it by getting fingered, wearing a tampon, or simply just by exercising. Yes, it's normal to feel discomfort or an urge to pee.

I'm surprised you had sex & you didn't even know what exactly it is. Please educate yourself & use a condom before you open your legs again.

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(Rating: 3) Im very grateful for the feedback. I DO know what sex is, maybe you misinterprted the question. I was just concerned about the bleeding part. You could have been a little less harsh with your response but thank you all the same.
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