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Q: me and my b/f have been datin for almost 6 months. hes means so much to me but a lot of the time she doesnt treat me that well. im a freshman thie year and was considering breakin up wit him b/c i never see him and just felt too tired dwon.but then i chagned my mind and figuared i really loved him. but today this kid who knows him and me came up ot me and said that he wasnt breakin up wit me because he wanted to move on...i was feelin the same thing but i like him so much still. i sent him a text saying that we needed to talk and he said ill pass! and i said..were over.ur friend jeff told me everything..and he said..yull get far listenin ot him...i mean i ended a really long realtionship wit this guy and im not sure if i should beg for him back or just move on....help me pleeeease =).thanks so much
hey jess (its lauren)

well you know what i think you should do. i believe jeff he would tell me he was lying. i know how hard it is going to be but honey i think you should move on. i love you so much your my best friend and i would never steer you wrong. he has like no respect for you. he didnt even talk to you when he saw you and now he wont even call you back i know you love him but does he love you back? i really dont mean that to hurt you i just never heard you say that he told you he loved you. if you do move on, it will take time, you wont feel right with other guys, hell you might not want to be with other guys, i know you said you could never feel this way about someone else but once you eventually get over him i think you can. i think there is a soul mate for everyone and he just isnt yours. i'm sorry this is probably hard to read but i'm your best friend and i just want whats best for you, i just want you to be happy and if you stay with him you wont be happy, if you move on you wont be happy for a little while, but eventully you will be. its better to end it now before its been 2 years of you going out and he ends it abrubtly if that happens you will be in much worse shape then you would be if you moved on now. i love you and whatever you do is okay but this is what i think you should do. ill see you monday...talk to you later...

i love u sooo much babe

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