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if you dont want to go out with him, dont go out with him. you seem like your not ready for a boyfriend yet, and you love being single so why change when you dont even want too? if and when he asks you out just say you just want to be friends, and sure he may get upset and stuff but he's probably going to get rejected again anyways, so he should get used to it. if you continue to be nervous around him maybe you should tell him to leave you alone. you dont have to tell him in person, you can do it through a note, over the phone, or on the computer. no offense but he sounds like a clinger. and as for the other guy, if you like him enough to want him to be your boyfriend, ask him out and if he says no its going to be pretty devestating (especially if you do it in person) but you have to move on. maybe ask him in a month if you still like him. if he says yes then, congratulations you got yourself your first boyfriend. however, it seems like you want to stay single. i think you should go with your gut. that might seem like a "dead-end answer" but its not you just have to search deep within yourself and see if your ready or not.
oh its definitley not dumb of you.
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