Gender: Male Occupation: Racer Car Driver Member Since: June 7, 2006 Answers: 43 Last Update: October 24, 2007 Visitors: 2959
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Well first off, my boyfriend is going away for training for the army wich is for half a year, and the most i didnt see him for before was only for two days. Idk what to do i still want to be with him, But he doesnt trust me, he thinks im going to do stupid stuff because hes gone. & im not because it wouldnt be worth it , but how do i get him to trust me, and how do i cope with his leaving, and how do i comfort him about him not knowing whats going in my life.
second off, i hurt all the time, i mean its over little things to. Like i hate it when my boyfriend has conversations with girls or when another girl makes him smile, but i always try and tell myself that hes my boyfriend not there and this never works. i dont keep my boyfriend from his friend girls but i dont want to hurt. We have discussed this topic more than once, But i cant seem to make myself happy about the situation. Please help me on to fix this.
any answer would be apreciated (link)
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Hello,
I've had some trust issues with my girlfriend before still kinda do...When it comes to trusting you're lover sometimes you have to show them how much they mean to you & how losing them would hurt you...My girlfriend has lied to me a few times about things & we found ways to work through them...I left on vaction for a month to another state & the whole time i wondered if she was doing something bad behide my back until i called her & she was in tears the whole time i was gone...You have to show you're boyfriend how much he means to you & how losing them is the last thing you want...Also with the whole trust thing show him you're cell phone records or anything that will help show you wont be doing anything but missing him....
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