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me and this guy told eachother that we liked eachother, and as soon as that happened.. i figured we were about to hook up.
but then he had a talk with me, and tld me he realized he's in love with his ex, and he told me we have to postpone whatever it is we have until he gets over her..if he ever does get over her.. doesn't it sound like he doesnt wnat to get over her??
anyways, the questions is, does this sound like a bad idea? i dont know, the reason im hesitating is because´im afraid of being his sloppy seconds, or hisplan B, you know??
but still.. i really want him, so something inside me tells me maybe he was just trying to be honest with me, he didn't want to start anything while he still has feelings for her..
so what am i supposed to do now?
wait for him?
go on with my life until he's decided what he wants?
any ideas? anyone been in a similar situation?
thank you! (link)
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well it seems like you really like eachother and for a really long time. so i think it is worth waiting. but if you wait too long like a month or two you should start looking for a new guy.
but don't just give up on him, keep in touch and talk. maybe there are someways you can help him get over his ex. tell him that he can always talk to you and you are always there for him.
make him like you more so he would want you.
good luck and i hope i helped
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