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I don't know what to do and I really need advice.
My twin sister hates me. At least, I think she does. She acts like she does.
I moved out nearly a year ago into a flat with my boyfriend and since then, my relationship with everyone has improved....except with my sister. I've tried everything. I've got her round for an evening to watch movies, I even cooked a meal for her the day before yesterday. I invite her places and generally try to reach out and be sisterly.....but all she does is bitch at me.
For example, when I was there on Sunday, any time I said anything about the house (including innocently asking why there was a heap of bedclothes in the middle of my parent's bed), I got told that it was none of my business, because I don't live there any more. Then, when I try speaking to her about anything neutral, such as how work is with her and so on, she clams up. She won't talk to me and on the occasions she does, she does nothing but snap and be rude, ill mannered and.....I just don't know if I can cope with it.
It's getting to the stage where it is just easier to shut her out all together because I can't handle the way she rejects me all the time. Everyone has seen it, so I know it isn't me being paranoid.
I need some advice on how to handle it. I've tried fighting back, I've tried not saying anything..all I can do is get angry and cry.
Please help. Any advice will be gratefull received. (link)
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You need to sit down with your sister,talk about the situation with her,why she is acting this way,tell her all you want to do is get along,why she doesn't at least try to be a little nice if she still acts the same then another alternative would be find out who her friends are,talk to them to convince her to change her ways with you,that you're a very sweet person,that sisters shouldn't fight,and always stick together.But for sure she'll realize one day that she should of never treated you the way she did.
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Thanks for the advice. We have the same friends and I don't think it's a good idea to get them involved because it would put them in the middle. Thank you for your kind words though and I hope you're right.
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