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I don't know what to do and I really need advice.
My twin sister hates me. At least, I think she does. She acts like she does.
I moved out nearly a year ago into a flat with my boyfriend and since then, my relationship with everyone has improved....except with my sister. I've tried everything. I've got her round for an evening to watch movies, I even cooked a meal for her the day before yesterday. I invite her places and generally try to reach out and be sisterly.....but all she does is bitch at me.
For example, when I was there on Sunday, any time I said anything about the house (including innocently asking why there was a heap of bedclothes in the middle of my parent's bed), I got told that it was none of my business, because I don't live there any more. Then, when I try speaking to her about anything neutral, such as how work is with her and so on, she clams up. She won't talk to me and on the occasions she does, she does nothing but snap and be rude, ill mannered and.....I just don't know if I can cope with it.
It's getting to the stage where it is just easier to shut her out all together because I can't handle the way she rejects me all the time. Everyone has seen it, so I know it isn't me being paranoid.
I need some advice on how to handle it. I've tried fighting back, I've tried not saying anything..all I can do is get angry and cry.
Please help. Any advice will be gratefull received. (link)
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well what do you expect if your not willing to confront her.
you need to just flat out confront her and ask her what her problem is break through the wall with a sludge hammer. if she still is nasty to you keep her at a distance i hate to say this but some siblings just arent close. it doesnt feel good but thats the way it goes. your her sister not her dog.
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Thanks, although I think you've missed the majority of the problem. I can't confront her because of her nasty attitude and if I just keep her at a distance, it will tear a line through my family. I can't do that to them. Thanks anyway.
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