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Hey i am 13/f and i am pregnant my baby is due in a week. No im not a slut or anything i would have kept my virginity until i was married but i was raped by my older sisters ex boyfriend. And I dont believe in abortion... my family is 100% supportive of this pregnancy and any decision i make. I just dont know if i wanna give him or her up for adoption. I really love the baby and i want whats best and i know that would to be with me because we have a good family and we have enough money to support the baby but i dont know if i will see the baby's dad in him or her and if it will scar me... I know its not the baby's fault. But anyway I could use support oh and baby names could help too! idk if its a boy or girl but i like names like nevaeh (nuh vey uh its heaven spelled backwards) and savannah and jayden, cayden, and skyler... anything else???

please help!!!

Well first if you want to do what’s best for your baby then you have to ask yourself questions about your environment is it clean, do you have enough money to take care of it, can you take care of it, you are only 13 years old, have you talked to your parents about adopting it maybe that would be a good choice, I don’t believe in abortion either so I would ask your mum or dad if they will adopt it if you think you wont be able to take care of it. And you can love this baby with like everything in you and sometimes that isn’t enough for the baby to grow up properly but I do no one thing is for sure the baby is not its father and yes it has some of its fathers genes but I believe good overcomes always so there is more of you in the baby then him I hope I helped.

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(Rating: 3) i already had her and i decided to keep her
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