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Hey i am 13/f and i am pregnant my baby is due in a week. No im not a slut or anything i would have kept my virginity until i was married but i was raped by my older sisters ex boyfriend. And I dont believe in abortion... my family is 100% supportive of this pregnancy and any decision i make. I just dont know if i wanna give him or her up for adoption. I really love the baby and i want whats best and i know that would to be with me because we have a good family and we have enough money to support the baby but i dont know if i will see the baby's dad in him or her and if it will scar me... I know its not the baby's fault. But anyway I could use support oh and baby names could help too! idk if its a boy or girl but i like names like nevaeh (nuh vey uh its heaven spelled backwards) and savannah and jayden, cayden, and skyler... anything else???

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well i think you should keep the baby because many kids get treated really badly when they have foster parents! i mean its all up to you and i understand that you dont want to see the father in the baby but god makes thing happen for a reason! u may want to give it up now but when its born you may just fall in love and dont want to let the baby go! after you have the baby its best for you and your family to talk bout how it may effect your life and if you keep it who would help you and things like that! if they all agree to help and you can still get your education then i say keep it! i would try to give some names but i dont want to say the fathers name on accident! i think u should pick like 5 name for each sex that you love and wait til the baby comes out and see which name best fit it! GOOD LUCK and i hope you make the right choice!!!


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Thanks so much
i had the baby and she is wonderful
her name is Arysophie and her middle name is Jayda




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