In the past, my best friend, used to ditch me alot. We had a big discussion on it. I said how it really hurt my feelings & all this stuff. So then she told me, she didn't mean to do it, & she was very sorry, & would never do it again. She promised & everything.
Then, just yesterday, she did it.
I went to this beach, like I don't know a week or two ago? & thats basically, all I've been talking about. & I kept saying I'm gonna invite you ok? & shes like ok, I can't wait. So I was all excited right? & then I'm like.. "I think were gonna go down there tomorrow. I was wondering if you can go?" & shes like "Yeah!" & so then.. around 6ish that day, I went to the park with my family & got ice cream. So, when I get back, shes all.. I can't go with you tomorrow, I'm sleeping over Kahlies house. & I got really really reallly really mad & upset. Because, I've been looking forward to it, for forever. So, since I was so angry, I just blurted out, I don't wanna talk to you anymore. & like stuff about being her best friend. So, then when she got to Kahlies shes all.. "Well, I can't believe your doing this when Kyle is about to dump me!" & then I just signed off. Because, I got mad.. that shes more worried about her boyfriendm, then losing her best friend? So yeah, I don't know what to do. I acted like I didn't care anymore, because I was tired, & wanted to go to bed.
What should I do? Should I continue to be mad at her? Or should I just forget about it.. & forgive her? I'm just upset, & need some advice. ASAP.
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what kind of friend would ditch you like that so many times? if you talked to her about it already i would give her one more chance if you really want to be friends. but it sounds to me like she isn't really commiting to her friendship. i would give her a few more chances and tell her how you feel. say something like:
"i feel like you've been ditching me a lot and i feel really used and left out. i dont know why you're doing this but i want to be friends..but i'm getting sick of you ditching me" ect..
then try to make up with her and give her more chances (but obviously dont say you have 3 chances or whatever, keep that to yourself. then if she continues to ditch you..shes not a good friend. if she stops ditching you..shes there for you..hope i helped..please rate me high!!
(: Rachel
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