so...my name is Rebecca and I'm 17, going to be a senior in high school . i am currently at either the 2nd or 3rd spot in my class academically, but plan to graduate as valedictorian...so if you have a problem academically I'd love to help! i want to be a journalist (and kind of am), which means i may be a little harsh, but i do have a not-so-sharp edge (don't get me wrong, i can be sassy, I'd just rather smile :) ) . I love knowing that i can help someone and I'm actually of use to someone. When i was younger i was more shy, and all people knew about me was that i was a good friend and for the people i answer...i hope you think so too!
Also, God is big in my life. Like my whole life. And for anything I help you with...I give Him all the glory. It's all about Him and what He's given us. :)
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Ok, so my ex friend hates me because she thinks i was talking bad about her. i feel pretty bad because i kind of was by telling my guy friend about her, he rephrased what i said to her, so my ex friend thinks what i said was all too wrong. All I said to him was that she dumped me for her new best friend and her ex boyfriend used her, and that's what she told me word-by-word. in a way i feel like it was wrong to say anything (guilty on that one), but my guy friend rephrased it saying her ex used her sexually or whatever and she dumped me and started hating me when her new friend came along. i didn't say any of that...
I feel horrible for saying anything but what she heard was a lie. yet before we argued over this she wasn't treating me like a friend at all. she would always hang out with her new friend and it'd make me mad. i don't mind her making new friends but what she did was inconsiderate. so my question is, what should i do? forget about her and make new friends? or try to talk to her again? thanks in advance (link)
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well i know it really sucks to have the person you tell (or used to tell) everything to not talking to you and it might be hard to stay away but maybe you should stay away for a while, you know just let her cool off. in that period you can get to know other people and make new friends. maybe later when she's not mad and gotten over herself and missing you you can talk to her and explian and maybe patch up your friendship but for now just let her cool off. you'll be fine on your own for while. i hope that helped.
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