Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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i'm 13, i don't plan on losing my virginity ANYTIME SOON, i'm going to keep it until i'm married. Most of my friends aren't virgins [ages; 13-16] and they don't regret it, but i know in the future they will . but can you guys just give me an amazing reason on why being a virgin is a precious thing and that giving up your body to some guy that just wants to get in and out makes you seem like a hoe. i really need good reasons so that when the other 1/4 of my friends are going to have a sex i can give them great reasons on why not to [other than STD's and all stuff i need other advice] (link)
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It's nice to hear that you plan to hold out til marriage. I have always said I would do the same, and now I'm older...and I still think it's a nice idea..but realistically it's difficult.
As for your friends, you can't convince them not to have sex, because waiting for marriage is not right for everyone. But, you can explain to them that if they don't love the guy and are just doing it to fit in...they are going to regret it. And as long as they don't regret their first time...it's alright. But of course, if they haven't been dating the guy for too long and barely know him and if the guy is just plain bad news. Try to help them see that if they do want to have sex...that they should do it for the right reasons. You can't really stop them...but you can be a friend and help them see they need to find something real and yes it is pretty hard to find it at 13.
Well I wish you best of luck.
--Teacup
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thanks so much hun! well keep in touch if youd like, xoxmichh@aim.com
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