Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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I think my best friend has major jelousy issues and I don't know how to help her out. Example: If someone has one of her favorite songs on their myspace or something she gets mad. She acts like she's the only one who can like it. Same with layouts and colors for A.I.M. She's really spoiled but her family isn't even rich. Her parent's can't make her understand that they need important things for the family besides Abercrombie clothes.
There is a guy she likes and he has a girlfriend. She was talking all trash on her saying how she was fat and ugly.. and seriosyly, she's not. If I hang out with other friends, she gets mad at me. She didn't make a volleyball team and soccer team and she threw the biggest fit!! She kept yelling at her mom like it was her fault and was being really bitchy towards me. She also gets upset if she isn't first in someones profile or something. If she's last or something, she gets upset.
Anyways, she's my best friend and I would never justt blow her off and I've sat down with her and talked to her about it but she gets mad and then forgets about it. I mean, there are good things about her but it just drives me insane and I don't know what to do. (link)
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If you don't want to give up on her friendship, that's good because it shows you have dedication to your friend...but also...there's nothing else you can do but talk to her about it. Try to get it to stick.
Tell her that you have tried to explain things to her many times alread, but it never sticks. Truth is...this is a quality many people dislike in friends and it can make her lose friends. Also, to be considerate of her parents needs. And as much as it sucks, she can't get everything she wants. She needs to stop throwing hissy fits for everything and just deal with it...it's life. She's not the center of the universe...and that is a horrible attitude to take on.
Good luck,
Teacup
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