Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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Ok, this whole problem happened at the beginning of summer but stated like a month before (it's confusing, i'll explain). Well me and my other 5 best freinds have this name in our grade that everybody knows us by. Ok and in this all girl group all of us are best freinds, and we have always been and stuff. And yes, everybody has who their closer with but we ALL still know we're best friends. Well, a couple months back, at the beginning of May, my one friend Kristin started going out with this one boy Tommy. Now Tommy is apart of our group too, but like the other half... the guy half. Kristin really liked him.. but Tommy has never had a serious relationship, and I could honestly say that I felt that he didn't really "love" her (he was always the guy that would hook up with random girls). Well while the two were going out.. I found at that my other best friend, Ashley, was calling Tommy late at night, and talking with him for almost hours on the phone while Kristin and him were going out. Then she admitted to liking him, and he admitted it back. This was when Tommy and Kristin were still going out. Now the two managed to keep this a secret from the whole group. Sooner or late.. around the last week of June, Tommy broke up with Kristin replying that "I'm holding you down". But Then I found out, two days before the break-up Tommy asked Ashley, "Do you want me to break up with Kristin so me and you can hang out" and obviously he meant hook-up. THEN after the break-up, Kristin cried for weeks, every single day I saw that girl cry and I felt crushed. While Kristin still wasn't over Tommy, and still felt crushed... it turns out that Ashley and Tommy hooked up and she gave head to him and then he asked if he could eat her out, and she denied. Now somehow they kept this a secret until the past week when everyone foudn out... Yet they dont' know that everyone knows. You have no clue how mad I am at Ashely, we're all suppose to be best friends and she did this. She's a whore. I'm soo pissed off, and now someone has to break the news to AShley and I'm devistatde that I have to because no one is brave enough to. I dont' know what to say. I feel so bad. I mean it took all summer for her to get over Tommy and it turns out he hooked up with her so called best friend. And also I don't know how to tell Ashley that she is so low adn a backstabbing slut. Alond with Tommy I don't know what to do, I'm so confused?!?! Please Help Me : ( (link)
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That's a tough situation. But, I would say just confront Ashley...she'll give Tommy the message. Just flat out tell her, that what she did to Kristin was pretty unforgivable. She caused her best friend more pain than what she would have been through. It's kind of like giving her a guilt trip, I think it will make her feel like crap, and really it's something she deserves for doing something hurtful to a best friend.
-Teacup
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