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Heyy, just call me Tara.I've lived in Ontario all my life.Im sweet sixteen and Im just starting my junior year.I like to joke, hang out with my friends and enjoy every bit of life.My friends mean the whole world to me.You mess with them, you mess with me.Im a very dramamtic and emotional person.Im oppinionated and wont let down a good fight.Very friendly down to earth person and easy to talk to.I absolutely love psychology.In the future when I get to university Im going start my years of being a psychologist.=)

Im on a hiatus for now.Just Dealing with a break up with my long time boyfriend of 1 year.I wont be on giving advice again until im fully recovered and inspired to give advice again.Thanks for your time.Buh bye.

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advice

i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance

Well you shouldnt feel pressured into sex just because everyone else was doing it.It should be at the time YOUR ready.

I was 15 when I lost my virginity.Im completely comfortable about talking about this.Yes it was a young age and im 16 now.Do I regret doing it?, absolutely not.I was never pressured into having sex.Actually I was the first one out of my friends to have sex and after that they kinda followed me which wasnt a good idea...You see I felt comfortable and ready.I trusted the person who I was with.Which is my still bf of a year now.My first time I was nervous but it didnt hurt at all or bleed.After we went ouside and it started snowing and it was the first snow of the starting of winter.So I guess it was kind of a magical moment for us and we always look back on it.I was so worried I was pregnant even though we used a condom.But after a year you kinda get familar with it :\ All im just saying is not to rush.I mean its not like your missing out or your being forced to.Its your choice.

well good luck
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