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Okay, I dont need help coping,
I just need to know if I'm alright.
I mean my grandma died when i was in 5th grade,
I'm going into 10th now, and I was closer to her,
more close than the usual grandchild grandma bond.
I mean ever since I was born I came over to my grandparents house EVERDAY after school,
and I stayed there a lot. And I still cry over her, and how I miss her.
I mean when it happened, sure I was sad, and I understood she was gone, but today I understand more, and it just makes me wish she was here.
Especially since I'm volunteering at a nursing home, for some reason I get weird notions that my grandma is stuck somewhere in there, since she said she woudl hate to be there ever. And that I just cant find her, and shes miserable.
And this month, august, is the month she died,
on the twenty eigth actually, and it was a tuesday. and i cant take it, i don tknow what to do, and if i'm going to be okay? Is it usual to still beupst about things like this even if it happened a long time ago?
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Yes,it's okay to still have the pain even though it was a long time ago,things like that you never forget for some people they deicde to have like a photo or for others it's not enough they want like maybe a piece of them like something they used to wear or a piece of their hair,makes them feel like their loved one is still with them,it's something so precious that not even something newer or money can replace it.Try to think that your grandma is happier with god,that she doesn't have to worry,no more frustrations,she's watching you,and that she'll always love you.And that she wouldn't want to see you upset she wants to see you move on and that she will rest in peace until she see's that.Don't be sad know that she'll always be guiding your way even though you may not notice.
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