Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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Brandi_S
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Okay, I dont need help coping,
I just need to know if I'm alright.
I mean my grandma died when i was in 5th grade,
I'm going into 10th now, and I was closer to her,
more close than the usual grandchild grandma bond.
I mean ever since I was born I came over to my grandparents house EVERDAY after school,
and I stayed there a lot. And I still cry over her, and how I miss her.
I mean when it happened, sure I was sad, and I understood she was gone, but today I understand more, and it just makes me wish she was here.
Especially since I'm volunteering at a nursing home, for some reason I get weird notions that my grandma is stuck somewhere in there, since she said she woudl hate to be there ever. And that I just cant find her, and shes miserable.
And this month, august, is the month she died,
on the twenty eigth actually, and it was a tuesday. and i cant take it, i don tknow what to do, and if i'm going to be okay? Is it usual to still beupst about things like this even if it happened a long time ago?
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It must be a very hard thing to cope with. And, I think it's ok. Sometimes, something will remind you of a person you lost, and you start thinking about them and next thing you know...you're crying and wishing they were there with you. I think it's ok. It's harder because of what month it is, and you do understand everything better now. I don't think you will ever actually get over it, but you'll learn to realize that she is in a better place, and she never had to be in nursing home, and she's watching over you.
And on the bright side, at least you got to meet your grandmother, not a lot of people do, you should consider yourself blessed. =]
-Teacup
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aw thanks you made me feel better :]
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