Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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im not so sure how to talk to a guy. im gonna be a sophmore this year and im switching schools. there was no problem at my old school because i knew everybody since Pre-K. but im prob gonna see a guy i like and wanna go talk to him but wont be so sure how to. no scratch all of that. how do i talk to anyone i dont know. im afraid im not gonna have friends too. im not a shy person on friends but i dont know how like the girls are. mean snobs or whatever. i really dont have any prob with girls just guys. at my old school everybody pretty much liked everybody wasnt really any mean person. just like the same. i would like to make new friends though. am i just supposed to go up and say hi and talk to him and be like im new here and what if he is a jerk or something and like does somethin mean or whatever. now at my other school i would just do it but then again i knew him and like what he liked or whatever. i just dont know how to handle new ones. it would be nice if i could like learn how to get him to like walk me to class or sit with me at lunch but... any ways please give me good answers. most of the time they arent that great. thank you to anyone who helps. by the way i start next week. (link)
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Making new friends is always a little difficult and I can't tell you much, because well...who knows if the people are snobs or if they are very nice. I do know that generally, people are eager to meet the new kids in school. So if the people are nice, they will come up to you and try to be friends with you. If they don't, then you'll have to make an effort and try to make conversation with people you think seem approachable.
As for the guy thing, since you are new in school, you can play it up a little "hey, i'm new in school, could you show me where this class is". If they guy is a jerk, then forget him. Why would you try to make a friend in someone who is mean.
Try not to be too nervous and just go with the flow, you're bound to meet new people.
Good Luck.
-Teacup
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