Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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OK here it goes I went out with this guy Ben and he broke up with me.. and then 2 months passed and we decided to give it another try unfornately it didn't work out so i broke up with him. the thing is, is i have a thing for his brother jay and i know he has a thing for me because he told me after the first time ben broke up with me. i still have a thing for jay, but i don't know what to do. ben is currently not talking to me. he won't give me the time of day... he is upset and acting childish so i don't wanna deal with him. what should i do? (link)
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If you have tried your best to talk to Ben and he snubs you, you have done your best. There's no reason for you to suck up to anyone...it just didn't work out...it's not your fault.
As for Jay, he needs to talk to his brother and let him know that you two have feelings for one another. If you really like the guy and he likes you too...you deserve a shot at happiness. I say go for it. Ben may be more mad, but he'll get over it one day. Wounds heal.
Much Luck.
-Teacup
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