Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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i am the school dork
i am SERIOUS
i am a loner
i need friends..OBVIOUSLY
well see on my messenger i have 2 friends my sister and me (i have two e-mails)
people call me dork and loser because i love to look at stars and pretend to talk to the martians that live there
its true! i've seen them with my super deluxe telescope from my true love, my mother, on my birthday :)
i had a party but unfortunately only my family came i invited all my classmates. lets put it this way i live in beverly hills (my dad is a top attorney, my mom is a CEO) so everyone at my school is all uppity up and shows off about their being rich and all. i'm just glad that i have a home and all but i am 13 and 1/2 i want a boyfriend! i want friends not friends that would just use me! please give me tips! let me give you an idea of how i look:
glasses (these cool d&g aviators) on sale
school uniform (private school)
the straightest stiff hair anyone here has ever seen.
school is coming!
I NEED YOUR HELP!
signed,
desperately desperate (link)
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Now, I'm not saying you should change or anything but maybe you should tone down your personality a little, you can't come off too strong at first because that is something people don't like. Just be sweet and approach one of your classmates and talk to them about what they did over the summer or just any little thing. If you don't want them to use you, first don't discuss what your home life is like and second...don't let them. If they are only your friends for that reason...move on..you'll find others that like your personality.
And hey, you sound like you are an individual and that you stand out in a sea of private school girl uniforms...something a lot of people want and can never achieve. So kudos on that!
Embrace what you look like, I use to hate the fact that I wore glasses, so I was dying to get contacts, but now I don't mind wearing them...I think they make me look smart =].
Good Luck...if you have need any more help, just message me.
-Teacup
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