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I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

Since getting married, my husband and I make love around twice a week but i have a secret. I can't enjoy it cos it hurts, like, a LOT. Weve tried lubes and i always get turned on so its not cos of that but i dont know what to do. Its ruining our sex life and thats tough cos were trying for a baby.

Please can someone help us? Im so worried about this. I just want it to feel good but it hurts so much that it makes me sore for days afterwards. Please, any advice for us!

It sounds very much like you have something called Vaginismus, which is where sex is very painful, sometimes impossible, i too sufferd with this.
See your Gp who will refer you to a sex therapist, it is a very treatable condition aslong as you get the right help.

This website tells you about this condition

http://www.psychnet-uk.com/dsm_iv/vaginismus_disorder.htm

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(Rating: 5) Thanks. It sounds like that might be what it is. If you have any further advice you can give me about this, I'd really appreciate it because I feel very alone!! My username is RainbowSmiles. Either way, thank you again for your help, which was a lot better than anyone else who replied!!
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