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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)

advice

I'll start by describing myself as I have been described by people:
I write amazing songs on guitar. I'm the best actor in my high school's theater company. According to many I'm the smartest kid they know. According to a similar number I'm extremely attractive. They claim that I'm also one of the nicest, easiest-going and can hold stupid and intellectual conversations with anyone equally well.

Okay. I'm not an egotistical selfless son of a bitch. These are things people have said to me. Here's something that bothers me: I have never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on a real date. Ever. I came close a few times, but then one girl decided to tell me yes when she really meant she didn't like me that way, and then another got as far as telling me what to tell her dad when I came to pick her up, but then changes her mind an hour later, because. No real specific reason, end of two or three weeks of getting to know eachother and whatever.

I keep trying. I generally don't like to approach girls like that unless I make eye contact and float a smile across once or twice and have one returned. Everyone else says that works, and then you go talk to them. I can't even make eye contact.

So, am I just an unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning, or is there some insight anyone might have here? I'm inclined to believe the first one, really.

it seems like your a really great guy.
somebody whose not one-sided.
if you don't have a girlfriend,
it's maybe because you haven't found the right person you want to be.
i'm not saying you're "soulmate" or something,
but in order to have a relationship with somebody,
you would have to have something in common,
or something you like about each other.
somebody you can open up to.
but if you haven't found that person,
then that's fine.
someday you'll find the courage in you to approach a girl,
but if it's not the time,
you can't make yourself do it.
just have patience.
you don't have to have a girl with you everytime.
sometimes it's better to just be with your friends.

i'm not sure if this is what you want to hear,
but this is my thought about this.

but if you need anything,
just ask me.

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(Rating: 5) You've got about what I figured. However, on certain days it makes me want to become an expert with a javelin, just so I can kill something from about 100 yards barbarically. Thank yee.
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