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I'm a single, Modern Orthodox, Jewish man.

I live in Ellington CT and I'm currently the Co-President of my synagogue, Congregation Knesseth Israel.

I work as a paramedic for the Ambulance Service of Manchester, a commercial ambulance service that does both emergencies and routine transports throughout the region.

In addition to my Paramedic License, I have a degree in Mechanical Engineering.

I enjoy Bicycling, Reading (Sci-Fi/Fantasy, Biographies, History), Blogging, Watching Movies on DVD (Yeah Netflix!), and meeting people.

I'm looking for that proverbial nice Jewish girl who isn't intimidated by someone who's observant. I want to settle down and raise a nice, observant family.

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I'm 13/f and I was talking online with a friend, who he is 17. We have alot in common and stuff, so he asked me out. I was just wondering, what do you think is the maximum age difference? I really like this guy, and if he was my age, I would go out with him without question, but, is this age different ok?
Thanks in advance.

No, this age difference is not okay.

The four years between thirteen and seventeen are a lot bigger than the four years between, for example, twenty and twenty-four.

A boy that age is probably looking at girls that much younger than himself for their sexual naivete. He'd likely want to take advantage of your inexperience.

I should also point out that if you two were to have sexual contact, he would be guilty of Statutory Rape in most states.

It's okay to be friends with someone who's older, but the fact that he asked you out says he's after something else.

Best Wishes.

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(Rating: 5) thankyou for your opinion.


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