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i dont know if i put this under the right category or not..but..my friend from school is having a little going away party for her..and theres gonna be guys and stuff and i just got the invite and it says, "COME READY TO SWIM" and the last party we had for the end of the year party..i didnt go to becuz i was self concious..now im 115 pounds and im 5'3 but i still feel like im wide and from the front i have all that lower tummy fat..and like everyone of my friends are skinnier than me and i just cant go to swimming parties cuz im always so down on myself! i dont know what to do! all answers are appreciated! thanks! (link)
Everyone is different. You dodn't even need to worry about it, because no one probably notices as much as you. Plus, most women think that they are 30 percent fatter than they really are. So if it will make you feel better, do some crunches and have fun at the party!


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