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Q: Hey! My boyfriend is really horny. I know, he is a guy but come on! He wants to have sex 24/7!! We haven't had sex yet. I want to but when ever he has tried to go for it there has been sort of a crowd there =/
1 st time he tried/wanted: on a buss!
2nd time he tried/wanted: outside of a metal consert up against a steel wall with peple just around the corner
3rd: on gravel right infront of a parking lot with at least 15 car wich had their light on. SPOTLIGHT!
4th: at a café!!!

Seriously, does that sound hot or just weird??
Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm a virgin and I do want to sleep with him...just not in thoose places =/
What should I do?
This guy does seem pretty horny, so your not a virgin? and you do want to have sex with him just not in the places you described. did i get this right? ok, well then tell him what you told here. you want to have sex with him just not where he wants to have it. he sounds like a teen boy who has very intresting ideas. the reason for him wanting to have sex in these places are because of the exitment of getting caught, or just being watched. it excites him. but if you don't want to do it in the places he wants then you should tell him. but, if you are going to have a sexual life with this guy you must understand that both of your "desiers" come together. in other words you have to compermise. do kinda what he wants "in a public place" but not intirely public, talk to him and see if you can both decide what to do. the thing to a relationship is commincation. hope this helps.

Thanks =)

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Hey there, My name is Heather and i love giving advice. i have helped my friends so much with their relationships, with family problems, and friendships i am best on these subjects. If you have any questions like these or anything else i would be more than happy to help.

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