In the term once a cheater always a cheater, i believe it and i don't. i am a big person on giving 2nd chances. but cheating is also a big mistake as well, and it should not have happend in the first place. so i would talk to him tell him that i like you, but i won't take you cheating on me. i don't deserve that. go with the 2nd chance but if he does it again, dump him right away. you don't derserve to be cheated on, no one does. you can find better guys out there that won't cheat, and will give you the respect, and noncheating love that you need. i don't know how long you have been together with this guy, but from your question i am guesing that you were not friends first, and you kinda rushed into the relationship. so talk to him don't yell stick up for yourself say i won't take you cheating on me, and don't do it again, or your giong to loose the best thing you have. or something like that put it into your own words where he will get the point. and if he does cheat walk stright out, and don't look back. he will then see that he lost a good thing and he will most likely want you back, and he will for you, and you don't have to chase him. by walking out it's saying i told you so, and you should have listined. so good luck, and hope that this guy knows what you are capble of. :)

I've talked to him, and he promised never to cheat on me again. But now he is going on a train trip (like roadtrip butyou go by train) with his guy buddies and his packing is a pare of Jeans and 6 bottles of vodka =/
Yeah right that nothing is going to happen :(

Thanks for taking time to give me advice =)

Hey there, My name is Heather and i love giving advice. i have helped my friends so much with their relationships, with family problems, and friendships i am best on these subjects. If you have any questions like these or anything else i would be more than happy to help.

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