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Q: i let my bf down by not going to see him i didn't mean to but it took me awhile to get to the first place i was going...well now he's actin funny when i talk to him and he hasn't called me i have to call him. I'm really sorry but i keep doing dumb s**t and sayin sorry and i think the word is a little overused. Please help me i really don't know how to handle this i think it's going too far. (just to say i'm 14/f and have know him since 4th grade,i'm going to 9th)
yes, the word sorry is overused. a relationship is a 50 50 not 50 to nothing. he is not doing his part on the relationship, and making you feel like the bad guy. it's just not right. talk to him tell him you have noticed him acting diffrent, and that he should call you sometimes, because you have noticed that you are doing all the calling. or just say i have noticed you are acting diffrent and i would like to know why. and don't call him at all, let him call you. he has your number, he has fingers to dial the number. let him call you. if he don't change his attitude, or change his ways of not ever calling i would say go find a guy that will give his time to you. you can do so much better than this guy. but don't do anything unless you make sure you don't call him wait 2 weeks or a month see if there are any changes. good luck and hope this helps.

thanks you helped me sort some of my thoughts*

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Hey there, My name is Heather and i love giving advice. i have helped my friends so much with their relationships, with family problems, and friendships i am best on these subjects. If you have any questions like these or anything else i would be more than happy to help.

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