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me and my boyfriend fight quite alot, we have been going out for 5 and a half months now. And he always is saying our relationship is crapy. i dont want our relationship to be crappy. Mostly we fight because im a jealous person an dhe has alot of girls that are friends. Any advice on how to not care so much about all these girl friends of his. And any advice on how to stop fighting. And any advice on how to spice up our relationship alittle? Sorry its alot my i apreciate anything =) thanx muchly

First of all, if u are a jealous person, it isnt going to just shut off overnight. It is going to take time. Maybe something happened when you were younger that prevents you from fully trusting or maybe you are self-conscious and you have low self-esteem. I dont know you so it is hard to say. But either way, if you cant find some sort of middle ground...ultimately, eventually your relationship will face its demise. If your bf is the flirty type, and you are the jealous type...this is like mixing oil and water. I would take a step back and take a look at who he is as a person and who you are. Can you see yourself fully trusting him ever? If not, i would move on. There are many types of people in this world and there is nothing wrong with you the way that you are. If he loves you, he will work with you on this. I think he needs to consider how you feel and him saying that your relationship is crappy isnt going to make you trust him any more than you do. If you can, sit him down and explain why you feel the way that you do. Then when all of the serious conversation is over tickle him to death. :)

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