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What should I do?
by Minuk Choi

For you,
I would gladly walk a mile,
if that would give me a chance
to see you smile.

I'd call you my friend,
but that's a lie.
You mean more to me,
but I can't explain why.

For you are more precious to me
than all of the world's gold,
but I can't tell you that,
how can I be that bold?

If I spoke what's on my mind,
would you accept me?
Because without you,
I don't know where I'd be.

You seem to be calm,
while I feel absolutely lost.
I would like to be so bold,
but what would its failure cost?

Am I the only one faced with this choice?
Be daring and risk losing you as a friend too?
I can't risk that; I'd rather have that then lose everything.
What should I do?

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14 female. when ever i like a guy i tend to give or loan them money. most of the guys i liek are not trust worthy o i usuially never get my money back. everyone knwos that i ALWAY have cash on me i cant lie to them and say "sorry i dont have any money on me." I am afraid to ask them for the money back after i stop liking them, one because i am embarrasses and two:: because it has been so long that they have forgotten. during the last school year this one boy i was crushing on would ask me for a dollar every day for 3 or 4 months. i would say yes everyday and as a resuly gave him around 40 dollars and he never even liked me as more than a frined. i know the boys are jsut using me but i cant help my self. if anyone has any advice on how to stop or anthign to say to the boys who ask and try to use me i woudl greatly appreciate it!. thanks a million andone =)

haiely

Hi there. Well I know what you mean when you say it is hard to say no to them especially when you like them, but honey if you ever really want to know if they like "you" then you need to put your foot down on this. Tell them no and if you don't want to sound mean throw a joke in there and walk away with a smile, let them know you're more than money, besides guys like when a girl is witty and has a little attitute to them. If you really can't seem to say no, then forget what you think they know, and just tell them you don't have any money on you at the moment, who cares what they think how are they really going to know if you have it or not? Just be brave and assert yourself or it will only get worse as you get older, the older you are the more things you aquire that a scrub will try and get from you, ex. car, house the list goes on girl. Good luck!

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(Rating: 5) haha, thankyou sooo mcuh for the help! you have alot of great ideas! =)
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