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Q:

So I have a best friend,
but she really is getting on my nerves.

Everytime I make plans with someone,
she either invites herself, or says that the friend I had plans with invited her, OR talks to the friend I had plans with and talks her into inviting her.

I'm getting so sick of it,
now she acts like its okay,
and tells me if I dont want her to come
then I can tell her. But Everytime I tell her,
she gets all upset and gets mad at me.

But I mean come on, what can I do?
I'm so sick of her doing this!

Thanks!!!

i once had a best friend like this. She would get really mad whenever i hung out with any other friend besides her. she wouldnt really invite herself. she would just make me feel guilty untill i did invite her. i just told her that im allowed to have other friends besides her and shes allowed to have other friends too. so i think you just need to tell her that. and make it clear to her that you need to make time for your other friends.

Rating: 5

Thanks you didnt help a ton, but I like how you said about i'm allowed ot have other friends and so is she. I gave youa five and the others 3 because the others just said the SAME thing over and over again.

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Hi. first of all, my picture is screwed up =]i tried to resize it on paint.

Im alicia, Im 15 years old, a sophmore at Lecanto High school in Florida. I have an amazing boyfriend named John Lake, and we've been together since april 22nd, 2005.