Member Since: July 25, 2006
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im 15/f
okay so i have a boyfriend, lets call him "Mark". We just started going out like couple weeks ago. The thing is that we were BEST friends before we started going out and now that we go out, I cant see him as my boyfriend... just a friend.
So, theres this guy, lets call him "Joe". Well, Joe likes me. He wanted to go out with me before Mark asked me out but I said I wanted to get to know him more. Well, now I've gotten to know Joe more and I really like him too.
I know if I break it off with Mark and go out with Joe, things will definitly not be the same as they were. But I really just cant see myself in a relationship with Mark.
So what should I do? Stick with Mark or go for Joe?
Please Help! Thanks in Advance! (link)
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dear writter,
Just do what your heart tells you. You obviously have feelings for the both of them. If you are going to go through relationships like this lets clear it out with the both of the. Talk to Mark first and tell him that you don't think you want to continue on. Of course the look on his face will be very sad but top it off with a nice kiss. I would go for the cheek though. Then he would notice you still like him but it just doesn't feel right. Tell him that youjust want to be friends. He should understand. Wait a week or two then go to Joe. Take your relationship on from there. If you are with Joe I would suggest that you sit down with Mark again and tell him what's going on. But never ever neglet him you must show him that you are his loyal friend and he will get over it.
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WOW! Thanks so much! You've given the best advice!
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