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I am counsellor with over 12 years experience specializing in parenting, families, youth and mental health. I answer questions in a blunt and straightforward way so if you are looking for coddling or really touchy feely type advice thats not me I provide real solutions for your problems and concrete suggestions in other words I tell you the plain truth I don't sugarcoat.

I am really worried these days with the easy access to the internet and all the false information that is out there and the fact that people believe it!! So please ask first. I don't claim to have all the answers but I can claim that NOTHING will shock me you can try though :)

I look forward to hearing you thoughts and questions.

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well my name is rachel and there is this girl in my skewl who i thought was perfect.... i mean, she's pretty, smart, FUNNY, loves sports, and is BAD (GETS IN TRUBLE AND STUFF)TOO. and the best part is, she doesnt knw it.....she's so nice and she's a foreigner! now, i want to b just like her, i want to dress like her act like her the whole package but i knw that that is never ganna happen. i asked her wt i should do and she told me that she doesnt do all this on purpose, she just acts as herself! now my question is, since i cant b her, i want to have an email like her. she has lots of emails but her hotmail is sqwirt09@hotmail.com and i want to make my hotmail sqwirt_08@hotmail.com. would that b considered copying her, do you think she'll notice or get mad. i dont think she'd mind but i want to make sure first. wat do i do!?!?!?!
HELP PLZ

Well they say that imitation is the highest form of flattery, but I wonder why don't you follow this girls advice and be yourself?

When you are truly yourself you are better then any imitation that you could think up. I don't know this girl so I can't tell you whether or not she will get mad but to answer your question yes it is copying her, and when you give out your email she will find out that you copied her.

Hope this helps.

P.s. Why exactly is getting in trouble cool? I mean not getting caught would be cooler wouldn't it??? Just a thought.

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