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E-mail: sassybabe7@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: lincoln
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: July 26, 2005
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I cant seem to let my ex go. I have known him over 1/2 of my life. We were best friends but a terrible thing (rape) happened to me by his best friend and rumors that I cheated left us to break up. I was demanding and selfish and abusive towards him and it messed up a lot of our relationship. We both got locked up around the same time do to our behavior...Now I have gotten out and changed around my life. Im doing very well and I have matured and grown up some. He is still locked up and we have the same counselor...But i keep having dreams of him and I constantly think of him. I love him..and I know he cares about me, but at this time I just cant get him off of my mind. He gets out in a few months, and he is doing very well. I pray all the time for god to help me let him go if there isnt a reason for him to still be in my life but it just wont go away. I need some advice on what I can do. I mean I am already occupied, Im a cheerleader, I workout a lot, I keep myself busy, but anytime I have time to think...its mainly about regrets and what i couldve done to help our relationship not ruin it. Past is past and i know that but I cant seem to move on! Any advice? (link)
hey.. sounds liek you hav com eout and you're doing amazing. you've knwon this guy a long time and you;re not just going to forget him are ya? you alredy knwo that you hav to leep yourself occupied.. just dont forget it is equally important to think about it. you hav to think of where you are in your life an like dontfoget him, just accept how things are atm, n how things will never be the same but if you end up together or something, then you two would only hav gone through more. think about it liek you prob hav. just dont forget who you are :)


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Thanks! I will do this..its just hard, ya know?
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