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I am counsellor with over 12 years experience specializing in parenting, families, youth and mental health. I answer questions in a blunt and straightforward way so if you are looking for coddling or really touchy feely type advice thats not me I provide real solutions for your problems and concrete suggestions in other words I tell you the plain truth I don't sugarcoat.

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How do you give a handjob? I know you touch the guy's "thing", but is there a certain way you do it?

Well first of all, its called a penis, not a thing lol. To give a hand job you wrap your hand around his penis and move your hand up and down slowly at first moving faster the closer he comes to ejaculating, he will be the "expert" on what he likes as he has been doing it for himself for a while, so he will know what he likes and how he likes it. Some guys like their balls touched as well so experimenting is a good idea as well.

Don't be afraid to ask what he likes if you are entering into a sexual relationship with someone you need to talk about what each of you like and dislike. Swallow the embarassment in the long run you will both be happier talking about what works for each of you.

Hope this helps.

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