Hey all, Im Charli :) I'm usually the one all my freinds come to for advice so I thought why not start helping other people with their problems. I've been through and seen quite a lot in my 15 year life, most of the crap has happened to me lol :( My strongest advice is given on relationships and friendships, but you can ask em anything n ill be happy to try n help :) I like to know how peoples problems turn out so if i do help you then please let me no what the result was. Bye bye for now :) x x x
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Okay so I'm a girl and i'm 14. I like this guy he's 14 as well. He's been flirting with me alot, he thinks i'm gorgeous, hot, he says noone can resist me and such. A friend of mine asked him if he was gonna ask me out cuz he was going to a while ago but he had a girlfriend. He said that I'm a cool girl and he wants to but he's afraid cuz of how his relationships have beeng going. So, I want to ask him out. The problem is that one of my best friends likes him too. It feels like if I ask him it'll be betraying her. But if he asks me it'd be different since i didn't pursue it even though I knew she liked him. Plus, she's laid back and i'm sure she wouldn't really mind if this guy and i go out.
My question is: Should I ask him out? Or wait for him? (link)
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There are two very important facts you need to consider here:
1. Your friends feelings
2. His relationship problems
Lets start with number 1, i thinkt hat before you go out with this boy at all ( no matter hu asks hu out) you need to talk to your friend, make sure she is ok with it and if there is any doubt in your mind that she isnt then dont do it! Friends are not worth givin up for lads especially at this age cos they wil be the people you need wen the relationship ends.
now to number 2, he says that he hasnt much luck with relationships but if he likes you as much as he sed he does he should be willing to give things ago and should not be telling you already that he doesnt think its going to work.
You need to give this a bit of thought my adivce is to wait for him to come to you, but make sure before you say yes that your friend is definatly ok with it. Let me know how things go :)
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thanks, she knows I like him which I think is a good thing. we've both said that if he asked either of us out to go for it cuz he can't have both lol.
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