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Q: i think i like a gay guy. i would ask him out if only he wasn't gay. hes cute but wears the same tight jeans that look like he got them out of the womens department everyday. i have no idea why he would wear that in the summer anyway. also with that outfit, he would wear a black shirt, black sneakers, volcom cap, and checkered belt. also only on one day he wore a different outfit. it was a marun (however you spell it, and if u don't no what i put, its that dark red and purplish color) shirt, plaid shorts, same belt and hat, and green sneakers. it looks like he took a pair of shorts out of my dad's closet. i don't know if hes gay or if he just doesn't have style. what do u think? and also i would like him if he wasn't "gay" and had better style. what should i do? thanks-♥
To me it doesn't really sound like he's gay.
It just sounds like he's stereotypically "scene." That's how scene guys sometimes dress. Tight girlpants, dark shirts/hats/shoes and checkered shoes or belts. Plaid as well.

It is his style and he probably likes it a lot.

It's not a good idea to judge someone on how they dress alone. If you don't know he's gay, you might just want to ask if he's seeing someone. If he says yes, ask who.

Also, keep in mind, he might have several pairs of the same jeans. I had two pairs of the same jeans last year just because they were so comfortable and fit me so well.

Be his friend. That way you can find out if he's gay or get close enough to him you can ask him if he is gay.

Or you could just ask him out. You'd find out real soon if he was gay that way.

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