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Uhmm. Im me, not givin out my name because its pretty ordinary and i dont want anyone to know who i am lol anyway im 14..friends are life, but my bestfriend is the world idk what id do without her i tell her everything and she tells me everything..weve even been complimented on how great of friends we are by other people, theyve told us that they wish they had a relationship like that with their bestfriend. anywayz, i love sports cheerleading since 2nd 3rd grade? dont remember one of them but yeah and softball just recently started with it a couple years ago but i loveee loveee loveeeee it, more than cheerleading. uhmmm..what else? family? yeah mines huge and everyone backs everyone up i dont know how them people can disown their families and not talk to them for years its not like that i hve 4 brothers and 2 sisters, theres 7 of us. im the youngest and the oldest is 29 uhmm.. singing? its cool, i like it just dont LOVE it like some people uhh/ i have myspace..im on it constantly and aim also, if youd like to chat just ask me for my name and id be glad to =] k. thats about itttttt peace.♥
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Member Since: July 18, 2006
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Last Update: July 18, 2006
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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me


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i personally think that you are ready. i understand that you have been dating him for only a week but if you really feel that you like him and hes the one who want to loose your virginity to i say go for it..youve already had oral sex and no body knows about it from uk and oral sex is kind of the step right before sex. theres no real way to tell your ready or signs like that..you have to know and think about it dont get yourself so worked up about it. just dont be stupid and go and have unsafe sex, if your going to do it most likely no body is going to stop you so at least be protected. hopeee i helped =]


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thanks so much for your help although i got it a day late it helped me kinda:) well i had sex with my boyfriend and before ,during and after i knew i was doing the right thing loads of pple replied to my question very nastily which didn't help only made me feel like shit :( thanks for you advice love me xxxxxxxxxx




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