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Hi guys! My name is Ally and I'm 14. My first name rhymes with my last name. I am full on italian and proud.I love making people laugh, and I hate war & fighting. I also hate bullies because they think they're so much better then everyone else. I love to sing, act, and dance, which is why I want to be on Broadway when I grow up :). I am a unique person, i put my own clothes together, and I don't really have a style,I hate being like everyone else. I hate cocky guys, and guys who make fun of girls that aren't pretty. My favorite band is O.A.R. and Ben Folds Five. I love the keyboard. That's about all you need to know about me :P.
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Okay, im not so sure if the catagory is right...but n e ways, i see you are rated high, so, yeah
Okay, so, i am 14, and there is this guy who just turned 16
we have made out twice, and i think he is much more experienced them me, so i have considered having sex with him, and maybe oral.
but, im nervous it will hurt, or he will say im bad
He hasnt said he wants to have sex with me, or oral, but he has hinted like "hey, you wanna go lay down over there?"
and then once he said "just so you know, i dont want to get in your pants, i just want you in mine"
and stuff like that
a bunch of my friends are calling me a slut for even thinking about it...
i have friends having sex, and giving guys blowjobs,
but my question is; will i be a slut if i do?
i know its long...but yeah...
There are many definations of slut. I'm not saying you are but I'm not saying you're not.
You shouldn't let him intimidate you. Don't let him pressure you into things you don't want to do. DOn't have sex just because it's the summer and you're playing a game. Now, I've never had sex but I'm 100% sure that you will totally know when it feels right. If you are 100% sure that you want to have sex with this guy, don't be afraid of what he might say afterwards. I'm probably sure he won't say you were bad. (Unless he's a huge butthead.) If he does, screw him. I mean why would you let his opinion impact you so much? He's just a random kid. It probably wil hurt for the first time. But, if you're not afraid, before you start ask him to just take it easy. If he is a true gentlemen, he should respect your wishes.
As for your friends, I mean what do they know you know? The most trouble they've had in they're life is probably something stupid. They should respect what you want to do. If they don't, then they're not really your friends.
Just remember that you will always have one best friend that will totally be there for you no matter what decision you make.
Wow..this took me a while..I hope it helped.
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(Rating: 5) Thanks Allie, it definatly helped :)