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My boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. We've had phone sex before, but i know thats much different. He once said "I want to make you cum" and after that I got really self concious. I know Im able to cum, I can feel an orgasm, but am I suppose to actually like "cum" as in like liquid stuff? Lol. My boyfriend asked me once and he was wondering if I came alot and I told him yes, but truthfully I dont ever come like THAT. I feel it but its never like....coming out of me... Is it suppose to be? Is there something wrong with me? Im nervous becuase I think thats something that gets him really excited...I can get wet but its never like how he assumes....Im really scared about him being insecure if i dont cum like that and he thinks that its a normal thing for me. What do I tell him? (link)
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If you guys have sex and he is disappointed in how "much" you enjoyed it then just tell him it was wonderful/great/whatever and reassure him that you enjoyed it to the fullest and that it never just "comes out" like his does. You are completely normal in that aspect. Also, try different positions to optimize your enjoyment. That will help. I don't know how old you are, I'm hoping you're old enough to be giving this advice to! lol
P.S. Always use protection or you'll have a little rugrat running around and no time or energy for sex anymore!
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