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I dont know wat I should do. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 and for his friends 18th birthday he is inviting all his close friends to his party at a stripclub, and my boyfriend is invited. I first heard about this when I was on my boyfriends myspace. My boyfriend go an invite and had told another friend that he should come as well. I didnt think i should ask about it so I just kinda decided to wait to see if hed bring it up with me at least. A few days later he told me that his friends wanted him to go but he knew that I wouldnt want him to so he wasnt going. But he also told me that his friends were trying to convince him to go and just not tell me anything about it. Im glad he told me and Im even more glad that he said that he wasnt going to even if I gave him permission, but Im still a little nervous. I know he wont hook up with girls there, and I trust him but Im worried hes going to go behind my back. I heard from a friend of his that he had told them he was going. What should I do? Do i confront him? I really dont want him to go but I dont want to be unreasonable. I dont think its right if we r in a committed relationship and hes out looking at other girls... Am I overreacting?
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No. Strip clubs are demeaning to women. And if he is truly your boyfriend, he should understand that strip clubs aren't okay. You're not over reacting. Don't give him an ultimateum or anything, but definately let him know that it sure would hurt you if he did go.
Add a little ps of if he's going to watch naked women for fun, you want a stack of porn up to your eyes. If he can watch naked women dance, you don't see the harm in a bunch of pictures of naked men. Even if you don't want them, it will sure open his eyes to how wrong he's being.
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