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Hi, My real name is Daniel. Im an expert on youth affairs (issues) and you can ask me questions on:

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I will try and explain this without rambling on. There is this guy, "Q" is what we will call him. Well I have liked "Q" for awhile. We messed around and stuff (not bad, making out, not much worse than that), but I thought he liked me and that was why he was doing stuff with me, but then I came to realize he was just using me. I don't get why he doesn't like me. He gives me mixed signals like he likes me, then he doesn't. He knows I like him (or I think he still does), so he takes advantage of that. I'm just confused..and he likes so many other girls (which I'm not part of that list). And I really really don't want to like him, but I can't help it. I might even love him, not even joking. But everytime I even think about him, he makes me cry because I know he doesn't like me. But he likes so many of my friends its unreal. When I'm around him, it's like I'm not even there.
I just need some help on this situation.
Any advice at all will be great.
Maybe some ways to get over him.
Or maybe ways for him to notice me.
I see him a lot.

Thanks for anyone who helps : ]. (link)
Hi, this guy doesn't sound to show of what he wants. If he's using you and taking advantage then he isn't worth bothering with. I think you have more lust for him than love. The making out is what he's probaly getting out of girls. A relationship is between 2 people, mostly between a male and a female. They like eachother not because of the making out but because of the strong bond or connection they have for one another. He's obviousley wasting your time, when you deserve and can do better. Daniel.


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Wow. Thanks. That really helps. But I'm just having a hard time moving on.




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