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Heyy every 1! My name is Megan i live in a small town in Massachusetts. I love giving advice to people, but only about the topics that are really interesting. For example lovelife and basically relationships. I don't want to be bored while giving advice. So only for interesting subjects. I have many problems myself in those topics. So I would like some advice as well.

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I'm 14.
To make a really long story shorter, my bff...Jane. Has an abusive boyfriend, also, she's only 13, which makes it even more weird. She's going out with a 15 year old.
And she says I'm the only one she told.
She says he doesn't like beat her up, he just hits her a lot..
I never noticed, but recently she's been wearing long sleeves. Because she's actually BRUISED.

But, Jane says she really has it under control, and doesn't want to break up with him because she apparently realllly likes him. And she says he likes her, but..

I said if I were her I would break up with him.
Then she said something like that I didn't know what love was, so I couldn't say that.
I've never really been in this kind of situation before.
Do I tell an adult?
If you were me..what would you...do?
ugh, I'm kind of confused.
And I want to help my friend.

Hmmmmm... this is so difficult. I'm trying to picture my bff like that. Ok I got it. I would tell my mother if that didn't do anything then I would tell her mother. She would be upset (your friend), but it seems like you really care about her and don't want her to be hurt, so do what you think is right. I'm just saying what I would do. She might be mad for a couple of days, but eventually she will be happy you did it (I hope).
Good Luck
I hope I helped at least a lil bit! :-)

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