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my boyfriend and i had been going out since febuary 17, 2004 so a little over 2 years, everything was perfect we were madly inlove and it was so nice and great he helped me when i needed him and he would help me everything he was my prince charming!!! but anyway one night we were at a big party my good friend had this summer it was in june like june 10th around then, but anyway and there is this girl who loves my old bf i mean she would do anything in her power to try to break us up. she pulled out a bottle and demanded we play spin the bottle! i didnt want to because i figured she mad it so it would land on him and of course it did he told her he would only kiss me and thats it! and she jumped on him and started making out with him the worst part was he started making out with her back and i know because i saw his tongue involved. after my friend pulled the girl off of my bf he stared at me and i just started crying i usually dont cry but something made me want to cry!!! he came by me and hugged me and i pushed him to the ground he tried to apologize but i didnt want to hear it my best guy friend came over and hugged me and told me that he was a jerk and that everything was going to be ok. i didnt talk to my bf the rest of the night then next day i checked my email and there was 10 emails all with the same subject i dont like her is what they all said, so i told him i finally forgave him and things were good for about a week then he invited me over and i decided to go biiig mistake when he came to the door i noticed his friends b. and j. were there with there girlfriends who i knew and we were friends it was all good and everything was going great until his neighbor (who is the girl i hate who loves him) came over she and him flirted the whole time in front of me and then if it didnt get anyworse she started kissing him and touchin his tush again he just let her do it but this time i threw this soccerball on the ground at them while they were kissing and slammed the door on my way out. he chased after me and grabbed me \"babe i\'m sorry she just kisses so well i cant stop!\" i smacked him across the face and tried to get him to let go of me but he wouldnt \"im not cheating on you i love you and you know that\" he said \"do i\" i snapped back and kicked him in the nuts and walked off he told me he was sorry but i told him that we couldnt go out anymore and its been 3 days since i told him we couldnt go out now he wont stop calling me sending me emails practically stalking me telling me hes so sorry and loves me and wont do it anymore but i dont know i have to admitt i still love him but i dont want to be hurt anymore i really miss him but i dont like being treated like this please tell me what you think

Im proud of you for kickin him in the nuts its what guys like him deserve! I think u shud cut youre losses and walk away now. Ignore his calls and hiss emails and believe me sweety he'll get the hint.
If he"loved" you he wouldnt have let the girl kiss him no touch him or anything else and he wouldnt hav joined in. He's just an asshole who's trying to string u along so that he can boast to his friends. Ok you where 2gether 2 years but im sorry 2 say it sounds like hes bored of you and i hate to say that but it sounds like that to me.Hes not worth it youll eend up hurt believe me. I understand 2 years is a long time and you love him 2 bits but you have 2 think. Does it flow both way??
By the sounds of it i dont think he cares anymore. If he did he wopuldnt flirt or nethin like it with this other gal. So i suggest you jus tell him its through and you wont take his crap and walk away and move on..
I understand it will be hard but hell only hurt you more if you hang around.
Hope i helped
Anthony

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