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Hi,
My best friends moved away last year and when they came to visit for the first time ever I kinda cried whenever they had to leave! I miss them so much! What should I do to get them to come over more and to stop missing them so much?? Thanks!
I had the same reaction.
My best friend moved.
It's kinda weird we were friends for about a month.
Then she had to move back home.
She was only here for 6 months with her dad on business.
She came back that summer.
For 4-5 days it was great.
When she left.
It was like bleh.
But it wasn't an overrall reactional cry.
For some odd reason.
She couldn't come back last summer.
So it's been 2 years since she has been back home to her second home.
She came back this summer.
For again 4-5 days.
The second her dad picked her up and they left for back home.
I cried for about an hour-2 hours.
Crying just shows how much you love that person.
The best thing to do is keep in touch as much as possiable.
With me and my best friend we talk online all the time. We noticed we both go on around the same time every night. So we try to go on around there just for that purpose. Write funny e-mails too. Write letters here and there. Phone calls come outta the blue here and there. We watch the calling because it's outta state and all. We don't want the rents down our throat from the cost in phone bill (lol). Sometimes we'd send random "I miss you" or "I love you. Wish you were here with us" cards to brighten the other one up.
Just keep doing that and you'll be able to see them again sooner then you can realize it.
Don't worry. It will be okay.
For us. We had to beg her dad. It was really up to him. Since he comes here every now and then for business for a few days. If he is willing to let her come and stay with me, while he's working.
It's up to how the cost is and what not. If it's like the other side of the county or the other the side of the state. Then it isn't oh so bad. But for us it's either they drive here and fly back. Or fly here and drive back. It's really on the cost and the distance and expense. It took 6 months to come back after she moved. 2 years after that summer visit. We are luck and she's going to the city with her marching band over thanksgiving weekend. So our parents are letting us go in and see her. With luck. Even if it's only a day. After that, we are hoping she can come back next summer. It's really just depends on the cost and expense.
Maybe you could go to an amusement park or something that's between both places. Where you could see each other.
Don't worry! It's gonna be okay.
(Rating: 5) Thanks!! You were good help!!