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be prepared, its a bit long.
my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months. he's amazing. it was actually one of those best friends for life, turned love, things er whatever. but the thing is: he has jealousy issues like no other. he always tells me that guys are flirting with me, and he doesn't like it. i admit, i do flirt with guys, but its my nature. i grew up with guys. and i dont see flirting like most people do. i know its bad, but i cant seem to get it through my boyfriend's head that i only like him. and not anyone else. i try to explain i dont mean to flirt. but he just says 'okay' in that sarcastic, i know he's lying sort of way. and to top it all off. he 'flirts' with other girls too. if he wants to say that i do. but i know he doesnt mean it.
[bt the way, "flirting" in the sense. would be me pushing a guy. or pretending to throw him in the water. or the definition of childish flirting. i'm not even talking about like, kissing other guys or anything]
..and i definitly don't want to screw things up with the one guy that i dont have any problems with [well, besdies this].
so, im asking.
could anyone give advice on how i could possibly.
try to stop "flirting" with people.
or how to get it through his head, that i dont mean to.
because i think he only partially believes me. (link)
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Dear Jealousy,
I think that you need to get it through your head that you can't flirt with other guys maybe sometimes you don't mean to but you are taken and you need to know that you can't flirt until you break up. I think he isn't jealous but if he is he has a right to be because you are flirting with other guys. Not trying to be mean I am trying to make a point. Hear me out, would you like it if your boyfriend flirts with other girls? I dont think you would and I think that is exactly how he is feeling, like his loved on is kinda sorta cheating on him because she is flirting with other people. I hope I helped nicely not rudely!!
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thanks. but thing is:
he does flirt with other girls.
but i dont let it get to me.
because i know that he doesnt mean it.
but whatever.
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